5 Powerful “Tools” to keep Your “Peace” during the holidays in 2013!

The holidays can be a wonderful time marked by gatherings with family and friends, great food and the spirit of giving. But who hasn’t experienced an overload of such good cheer?

If you find yourself feeling more stressed than celebratory, don’t despair.

It’s possible to  feel more calm, joyous, in control and in balance, while still making merry.

Below are 5 Powerful “tools” that  come from one of my tele-seminars:

“De-Stress and Love Your Holidays.”

Pick one or two that resonate with your needs this season, or use them all.

1. Break the Habit of stress during the Holidays!

When you feel tense, short tempered or burdened with long to-do lists, break the  stress pattern by using a “calming” breath.

Deep breathing not only provides a change in focus, it also allows more oxygen into your body, causing blood vessels to open instead of constrict.

The calm that follows is the perfect opportunity to observe any negative self-talk.

Use the image of a STOP sign, a cancel button, or a delete button to halt negative thoughts in their tracks.

Then say “Change” to yourself as you move from those negative thoughts and feelings to a much better feeling place.

Replace those non-serving thoughts-those persistent negative conversations in your head-with positive self-talk.

Try these on:

• “It will all work out.”
• “I do have enough time.”
• “I have accomplished so much already.”
• “It’s ok to let go of…(fill in the blank).”
• “I’m focused on having more inner peace”

Or prepare some sentences that will work for you to say to yourself to counter those “monkey mind” stressful thoughts!

The point is to have better thoughts available to you, so you are ready to be in charge and NOT get caught up in the negative monkey mind loop!

2. Indulge without overindulging

Holiday gatherings usually mean alcoholic beverages and rich foods. Rest assured you can enjoy yourself without overindulging.

At the buffet table:
– Use a small plate
– Serve yourself just 1-2 bitefuls of the more calorie- rich foods
– Drink a full glass of water in between alcoholic drinks
– Walk away from the buffet table
– Focus on connecting with people, not food

At the dinner table:
– Take small portions
– Eat slowly
– Drink lots of water
– Enjoy just a half-serving of dessert

3. Give your body what it craves

Remember: your body loves to move! Forget about “exercise” and think of yourself enjoying “activity” and “movement.”

• When shopping, park your car as far from the store as possible and get some extra fresh air.
• Walk briskly around the mall before making purchases. Gather friends for a lively holiday stroll.
• Put on some music and dance while wrapping those presents!

4. Feel yourself in control

Drowning in holiday to-dos?

Getting in tune with your body and mind can help you feel more in control.

• First, write down everything you need to do until the end of the year or through the holiday season.
• Now close your eyes and think about your list. How does your body feel? Tight? Tingly? Tired? Tense?
• Next, imagine yourself consulting your “Inner Wise Person” for advice, then eliminate just one item on your list.
• Notice how your body feels now!

Welcome the feelings of calmness, peacefulness and joy that may be arising.

Return to your list and see what other items might be crossed off or re- prioritized.

As you enjoy the sense of relaxation flooding your body, imagine even further into the future:

See yourself organized, calm, choosing healthy foods, enjoying movement, and feeling balanced as the holidays continue and you wind down this year.

Finally, take a good deep breath as you focus on your inner calmness and open your eyes.

5. Affirm your health and well-being

Affirmations are a great way to change a stressful state of mind any time, including the holidays.

Here are a few of my favorites:

• I take time every day to move my body.
• I remember to eat only small portions of rich foods.
• I am conscious of what goes into my mouth.
• I stop eating when I am no longer hungry.
• I use my breath to stop the tension-stress cycle.
• I focus on people, not eating or drinking.
• I drink lots of water.
• I take time to relax and be calm.
• My life flows easier as I feel more and more balanced.

Practice and focus on one or more of these tools daily for even  just five minutes a day and you’ll connect to your inner peace this holiday season.

When you consciously choose to have more peace, instead of stress during the holidays, you will naturally experience more joy and balance as well!

Wishing you a whole holiday season filled with much peace, joy and happiness!

Warmly,

Jackie

Let’s hear how you think these strategies can work for you!