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Greetings,
Welcome to Spring!
I love this time of the year. I look around and marvel at
the how easily nature opens up and reveals
her beauty. Those bulbs I planted in the fall have
sprouted from the ground and turned into bright
colorful flowers that sparkle even in the mist of spring
showers. The trees are coming to life as they first
flower and then turn those flowers into leaves. And
generally, there is just a feeling of aliveness, a feeling
of openness in the air. It�s a time of rebirth and
renewal. And it all seems to happen with such ease!
Ahhhh....with thoughts of springtime, renewal and
ease, what a great time to simply....take a deep
breath, renew....and enjoy your springtime!
Laws of Attraction
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by Jackie Foskett, CH
Many of you are aware of the Laws of Attraction thanks
to Oprah Winfrey, whose television show recently
featured the best-selling book The Secret by
Rhonda Byrne about the power of thought. You might
also remember that I mentioned these laws in my
January newsletter. These laws are not new by any
means, nor is the information contained in The
Secret. However, it certainly seems the time is
ripe for more and more people to discover them.
Currently, I am enrolled in a monthly tele-course with
Rita
Hovakimian of Inspiring Success called �Creating
Results with Ease,� which helps participants deepen
the work of the Laws of Attraction and live with ease
instead of struggle. I�d like to share with you what I�ve
learned and what I now teach my clients when doing
hypnotherapy to access change in their lives.
What we think about or focus on expands
It all starts with our thoughts.
Thoughts are energy.
Energy moves, and is dynamic.
Do you ever notice when you focus on negative
thoughts, they seem to expand? You find more things
that are not right in your life, noticing all that is wrong.
As a result, you might feel tense, uneasy, maybe
getting into a �bad����� mood. The downward spiral of
these kinds of thoughts tends to feel heavy-low in
energy�depressing and defeating.
Communicating with ourselves
Thoughts are our communication with ourselves.
Often, this communication or self-talk goes mostly
unnoticed by the conscious mind. But the
subconscious mind is more aware. When we say to
ourselves, I�ll never be able to do that or
that�s too much of a hassle or life is hard,
things never go my way or I�m no good at that, I
don�t deserve it and so on, the subconscious mind
doesn�t question such thoughts, it just accepts them.
Moving in the direction of our thoughts
Acceptance becomes ever more true as the �data� of
our self-talk is repeated. Since the conscious mind
seems to be unaware of them, negative thoughts filter
through and make an impression on the
subconscious
mind�guiding us to move in their
direction! Another way to say this is: we attract into our
lives what we have impressed upon our minds, what
we give energy to, what we focus on consciously or
unconsciously. How do we learn to communicate with
ourselves in a healthier way and move our lives in a
positive direction? Read on!
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10 Ways to Attract Ease and Serenity
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by Jackie Foskett, CH
Who doesn�t want more ease, serenity and peace in
their lives? Here are the practices I have been working
with personally and also sharing with my
clients.
#1 Become aware of self-talk
Awareness is key to determining what you attract into
your life, so pay attention to your thoughts.
#2 Acknowledge negative thoughts
Say �thank you for sharing� or something similar to
acknowledge that you�ve heard the negative thought.
You may also want to imagine a big STOP sign,
indicating you are no longer willing to tolerate such
thoughts and images taking up your mind space and
energy.
#3 Replace negative thoughts with positive
ones
Think of something that inspires you, enlivens you,
and makes you feel good.
#4 De-stress
When we�re stressed, overwhelmed or anxious, we
have low scattered energy that makes it a struggle to
create the life we desire. Release stress in whatever
way works for you�breathing exercises (see the article "It's All About You" from
my June 2006 newsletter), a walk in the woods,
talking with a friend.
#5 Give yourself some �quiet� time
Quiet time allows the endless loop of thoughts to rest
a bit and helps body functions slow down. The result
is that you�re able to �see� (or feel, sense or hear)
things more clearly. Creativity kicks in. Your
imagination becomes more fluid. Solutions come
more easily. You start to feel better�and naturally
attract more of what feels good into your life.
#6 Focus on what you want (not what you don�t
want)
When you focus on what you don�t want, your attention
follows�causing struggle, wanting, needing,
dissatisfaction, frustration and low energy. Instead,
keep your focus on what you do want (not on the
wanting itself) and feel uplifted, inspired, satisfied and
more energetic.
#7 Use your imagination
Imagine how it feels to already have what you desire. If
that means peace and serenity, feel peaceful and
serene by imagining yourself in a place that fosters
those feelings. Hang out in that place. Relish the
state of mind it inspires. If you want a new job, a loving
relationship or greater abundance, get into the details
of that �picture.� Sense it, feel it, color it. Make it real in
your mind�s eye.
#8 Be grateful for what you already have
By acknowledging what we already have in our lives,
we make room to receive more. Practice
acknowledgement by doing a grateful list. Write down
5 to 10 things you are grateful for on a daily basis.
When done from the heart, and not as a �should,� your
energy shifts quickly to a higher level, making your life
a magnet for more of the same.
#9 Acknowledge your successes
Instead of focusing on what you haven�t
accomplished, spend some time recognizing what
you�ve achieved. When we recognize our successes,
both big and small, we see ourselves are winners. Write down 5 successes each
day, no matter their significance�from winning a
Pulitzer Prize to taking out the garbage. Recognize
your successes and you will have more.
#10 Nurture your body
Bodies are meant to move. Do yoga, get a massage,
get a facial. Eat healthy foods. Drink lots of water. Your
body will love it and you�ll feel better. By giving yourself
the gift of love�an expansive phenomenon that is
accompanied by ease�you attract more of it to you.
Lastly, keep at it. Remember: it took a lot of repetition
for your old negative thought patterns to take hold and
it will take repetition for positive thoughts to do the
same. Stand under your umbrella of commitment to
health and well being�let it cover you when old ways
of thinking rain down on you, let it protect you. With
time, the practices you begin now will lead to a path of
ease and the life you desire.
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Recommended Reads
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To help you attract more ease in your life, I
recommend the following resources:
The Secret by Rhonda Byrne (book and DVD)
Laws of Attraction by Ester and Jerry Hicks
Change Your Mind and Your Life Will Follow by
Karen Casey
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Quote of the Month
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"Choose your thoughts carefully....you are a
masterpiece of your life."
--Rhonda Byrne, The Secret
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